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As a nutrition coach, I frequently field questions from my clients who are concerned about whether or not they are getting adequate amounts of protein in their diets.

While I think the concern is valid, I do believe that the hyper-focus on this food group is a byproduct of a trend that I like to call “Labelmania.” Everyone is talking about what their nutrition label is these days, and many of the labels du jour have a protein-centric approach, from Paleo and Atkins to Ketosis. I feel like I can’t go to a social outing anymore without people asking me what or how I eat!

Pushing protein

Speaking of labels, another culprit fueling the protein phenomenon is food marketers who overpromote our need for protein on their packaging. It’s hard to walk down a grocery and avoid being drawn to these colorful, impactful labels.

Power Bar is a perfect example of this. Their Chocolate Peanut Butter Protein Plus Bar boasts a whopping 20-30 grams of protein. Sounds great, right? What they don’t promote on the label is the 12 grams of sugar in the bar and the nearly 20 ingredients it contains, most of which are impossible to pronounce.

These labels and messages around protein are everywhere, from TV commercials to social media. It’s so much information, and it can be completely confusing.

I’m here to help, because I want you to know that this whole protein thing doesn’t need to be complicated. I’ve created a list of four protein pointers that will help you get the protein you need without the stress. They’re easy to follow and will help you cut through the marketing and Labelmania clutter.

1. Know how much protein you really need

It’s easy to make your protein quota! Did you know that the average woman needs approximately 46 grams of protein each day?

It doesn’t take much effort to get to 46 grams; even if you’re a vegetarian. For example, if you consume a 3.5 oz serving of salmon (25 grams) + 2 eggs (12 grams) + 23 almonds (6 grams) + 1/2 cup quinoa (11 grams), you’re at about 54 grams of protein for the day. That’s pretty easy to attain and you didn’t even have to eat a bar!

2. Get protein power from plants

Put plant-based proteins in your portfolio. Protein doesn’t need to mean meat, meat, meat. There are so many nutrient-dense, plant-based proteins to fill your plate with AND satiate your appetite.

Some of my favorite plant proteins are lentils, chickpeas, quinoa, almonds, kale, tofu and broccoli. Animal-based proteins are an important part of your diet, but it’s important to be cognizant that excessive amounts can be detrimental to your health.

Experts agree that if you eat more protein than your body requires, it will simply convert most of those calories to sugar and then fat. Increased blood sugar levels can also feed pathogenic bacteria and yeast, such as Candida albicans (candidiasis), as well as fueling cancer cell growth.

3. Go protein au naturel

Reduce your intake of man-made proteins. I get it, you’re busy, and it’s way easier to grab a bar than it is a piece of chicken breast when you’re starving and on the go.

If you are truly concerned about your health and what you are putting in your tank, then remember the Power Bar I told you about earlier. Sure, you might be getting protein, but you’re also getting a whole lot of other fake ingredients that detract from any “good” you’re doing.

I’m not asking you to quit bars cold turkey, but reduce your intake of on-the-go wrapped protein options, and find some other smart, on-the-go solutions.

Starbucks is doing a great job with their Mercato products; from their sous vide egg bites to their protein boxes with hard boiled eggs and hummus. If you’re going to do a bar, I’m a fan of Kind and RXBAR bars, as they have minimal ingredients.

4. Time it right

On workout days, timing is everything! If you have an intense workout, time your protein intake correctly pre and post workout to avoid the hangries. This is important at any age, but it is especially crucial now when hormones can play such a key role in our moods.

By timing our protein intake around workouts, we can manage through the hangries and the roller coaster effect of feeling food-deprived. On workout days, eat a 3- or 4-to-1 ratio of carbohydrate to protein one hour before and after exercise to ensure your muscles are fueled and replenished. By pairing proteins and carbs, you can slow sugar absorption and help stave off food cravings.

The bottom line is this: protein is a powerhouse that has many powerful effects on your body and mind, but your focus should be a well-rounded diet that also includes lots of vegetables, fruits and healthy carbohydrates.

Try to follow my pointers and try not to get too caught up in Labelmania. It really doesn’t matter what label you’re wearing, it’s how you go about wearing it.

Cheers to your health!
Michelle

More from Michelle:

The holidays are coming round again (canyoubelieveit?). Be ready for the stress “” and the stress eating. Looking for a better way to feed yourself and your family? Be sure to check out how to shop your Farmers’ Market and buy from the bulk aisle!

How are you feeding yourself for optimal health? We’d love to know. Share with the community in the comments below, or hit us up on Gennev’s Facebook page or Midlife & Menopause Solutions, Gennev’s closed Facebook group.

 

I think we can safely say that 2020 has been an above-average year for just about everyone “” in terms of stress, anyway.

For women dealing with perimenopause and menopause symptoms on top of everything else, the stress can seem unmanageable. And because 2020 has been harder on women, it’s no surprise many women are looking for relief from stress.

One relatively new avenue for many is CBD, the non-hallucinogenic compound found in hemp. While research is still underway, many women have found CBD helps relieve stress and joint pain and promote sleep.

Interview with Aimée Shunney, ND about CBD

In this conversation, Gennev Director of Health Coaching Stasi Kasianchuk talks with naturopathic doctor Aimée Shunney about the potential of CBD and how to choose a CBD supplement that’s high-quality, safe, and contains what it claims on the label.

Take a listen, then check out Gennev’s high-quality CBD supplements, tincture, and Sleep System. 

 

Have you tried CBD for sleep, or are you considering it? What was the result, or what concerns do you have? We’d love to hear your thoughts, so please share in the Gennev Community forums!

Sexuality in menopause is tricky. Libido may be less robust than in previous years, or missing altogether.

Vaginal dryness or atrophy can make penetrative sex painful.

Weight gain, digestive issues, hair loss, and dry skin can leave us feeling distinctly unsexy and give our self-esteem a gut punch.

Add to that the challenges of a verrrrrrry long stretch of “us time,” and romance, intimacy, menopause and sex become about as interesting as cleaning out the refrigerator.

Covid-19 sexual health in menopause with Dr Laurie Mintz

So what do you do when menopause and/or COVID 19 derails your love train?

We brought back “sexpert,” psychologist, and author Dr. Laurie Mintz and our own Chief Medical Officer OB/GYN Dr. Rebecca Dunsmoor-Su to talk about how relationships and intimacy can survive and thrive in difficult times.

Watch the video of their conversation on the Gennev YouTube channel, then subscribe so you never miss an episode. 

 

TRANSCRIPT COMING SOON

How is your sex life surviving COVID 19 and menopause? We’d love to know how you’re managing to keep the flame alight. And if you’re struggling, feel free to share that too, in the Gennev Community forums. 

 

The red cup is back at Starbucks, and you know what that means: the holidays are just around the corner.

Finding gifts for everyone on your list can be enough to put even the most seasoned shopaholic in a bad mood.

And if you traditionally use Thanksgiving as your cue to start shopping, we have bad news: there are only 26 shopping days between Thanksgiving and Christmas in 2019.

And Hanukkah starts on December 22 this year.

Don’t: stress

Hooray! “˜Tis the season for an extra layer of emotion slathered over everything. It may be your first December without a loved one or the annual reminder of rough times with your ex. Family expectations are high, and your mother-in-law still hasn’t forgiven you for marrying her favorite child.Staying relaxed is easier said than done, but stress is both no fun and a big trigger for hot flashes.

If listening to music calms you, bring your headphones while you shop. Take a break for self-care: get a massage, soak in the tub, or go for a long walk before you start to feel burnout.

Doctor’s orders.

We’re hoping this list helps, as well.

Do: prioritize Cyber Monday over Black Friday

Who really wants to wake up at 4 a.m. to beat the Black Friday (November 29) crowds? Cyber Monday (December 2) has become a solid alternative. You’ll get great deals, save gas, and you can do it in your PJs with a cup of (decaf) coffee.

And you don’t need to wait: many retailers already have their Black Friday discounts listed online. For example, Cnet has curated a few ideas from favorite retailers like Walmart and Amazon, and TechRadar has predictions about upcoming Cyber Monday bargains.

Fear not, procrastinators: even if you snooze on the post-Thanksgiving deals, you can take advantage of Free Shipping Day on December 14.

Do: plan out your brick-and-mortar shopping routes

Online shopping makes it easier than ever to cross off everyone on your holiday list without leaving the house.

But when your partner or kids have prying eyes, you want a one-of-a-kind gift that can only be bought in a brick-and-mortar location, or you’re desperate for a new outfit to wear to the office holiday party, you need to put on your big girl pants and get out there.

Whether you’re hitting the mall or the mom-and-pop shops on Main Street on Small Business Saturday (November 30), write out what you want from each store and in which order to visit them to save time, gas, and stress.

Don’t: forget your comfortable shoes and your FitBit!

Hitting the mall can be a great way to get in your steps. Exercise during menopause is important for bone health, weight management, and to lower your risk of breast cancer. Make shopping work to your advantage!

Take the stairs or walk up the escalator. To really get a workout when shopping during the day, park as far from the entrance as you can, or on the opposite end of the side that you’re planning on visiting.

But”¦

Do: be safe

Safety first, always! Law enforcement professionals remind you to park in well-lit areas, keep your hands free and keys and cellphone easily accessible, roll your windows all the way up when parking, store gifts and bags in your trunk, and always lock your car.

Cybersecurity experts remind you to use trusted websites, make sure the site is SSL encrypted (you’ll know because the URL will start with “˜https’ and you’ll see a locked padlock in the address bar), and other best practices when shopping online.

Don’t: shop hungry, and Do: bring water and healthy snacks

Who can resist the alluring smell of Cinnabon? When that cinnamon-sugary aroma wafts across the food court, it can be hard to resist, especially when you’re stressed. Unfortunately, sugar, caffeine, and other mall delights can lead to hot flashes and midlife weight gain.

Stash a few snacks filled with fiber, protein, vitamins, and healthy fats in your bag: nuts, apple slices, dried fruit, hardboiled eggs, a cup of yogurt or cottage cheese, string cheese, or single-serve hummus and carrots are all portable and healthy.

You’ll feel better and make better shopping decisions.

Don’t forget your water bottle!

Thirst has a funny way of sometimes coming across as hunger, and water is good for your brain, body, and holiday spirit. It’s extra important that you stay hydrated in perimenopause, menopause, and beyond.

Do: play sleuth on social media

You can always count on Santa to let you know what the wee ones want. Teenagers and adults, not so much.

Time to do some sleuthing. Your friends and family members’ “Likes” on Facebook or “Hearts” on Instagram can give you insight into what they would like to find under the tree.

We promise this doesn’t make you a stalker. Well, maybe a little bit, but finding a thoughtful, inspired gift that the recipient will cherish makes it cute, not creepy.

Don’t: gift a DNA testing kit (unless you’re positive the recipient wants one)

Many of us in midlife find ourselves wanting to get in touch with our roots or explore our family tree. DNA tests have become a popular gift in recent years, and the most popular services offer deals around the holidays.

These tests can provide amazing genealogic and health insights but may be problematic as unsolicited gifts.

Do: buy gifts that support health

Perhaps your sister is trying to shed a few post-menopausal pounds, or your best friend is getting hit hard by hot flashes. Maybe makeup and nail polish are easy stocking stuffers for your daughter or niece.

We’ve written about how makeup, nail polish, and other cosmetics can be a bummer for breasts. Pick products that are free of parabens, phthalates, phenols, and other potential toxins.

Use this as an opportunity to help your friends swap out bad for better, such as alternatives to plastic (which may be full of cancer-causing chemicals). [A few ideas for reusable gifts]

And browse our gift ideas for women in midlife and menopause or our menopause wish list; from float sessions to cooking classes to smart vibrators (oh my), we’ve got you (and your sister, and your girlfriends) covered.

Don’t: buy gifts at all

What do you get for the person who has everything? Sometimes the answer is nothing””nothing besides memories and experiences.

Sure, you can’t give everyone on your list a vacation or spa day, but there are plenty of experiential options for all budgets, for kids, and for the entire family.

You could also give cold, hard cash, but what’s better than getting $5? Giving $5 to charity. Research shows that the pleasure of receiving money fades, while philanthropic contributions leave a warm and lasting glow. Charity Navigator can help you find reputable non-profits and causes that will resonate with your friends and loved ones’ areas of interest.

And you can’t go wrong with a homemade gift from the heart–even if you aren’t crafty enough to upcycle an apron, you can have a lot of fun putting together a DIY bubble bath set.

Do: get a head start on next year’s shopping

You can score seasonal cheer at a deeply discounted rate after Christmas… while you buy yourself what you really wanted from Santa. If you have the space, stock up on holiday decor and evergreen gifts to save your future self some of the stress you’ve just vanquished.

Don’t: be afraid to say “œno”

While there is some truth behind the idea of retail therapy, don’t shop if you know you aren’t in the right headspace for it. The holidays can be hard, and your mental and physical health needs to come first.

While you’re at it, feel empowered to skip the office holiday party. Unless you found that perfect outfit on your shopping adventures.

If you’ve mastered the art of stress-free holiday shopping, help a buddy out and share it with us in our community forums!

 

If you haven’t heard of the documentary Dream, Girl, you soon will! Team Gennev, in association with Seattle International Film Festival (SIFF) is bringing Dream, Girl to Seattle for its premiere public screening on Thursday, January 19, followed by a panel discussion/Q&A with local women educators, innovators, and entrepreneurs. We hope you’ll join us for an evening of conversation and inspiration around the challenges entrepreneurial women face and how to overcome them. Learn more about our panel and then purchase your tickets directly from SIFF.

 

Dream, Girl: showcasing and celebrating female entrepreneurs

What do you need to start living your dreams? For would-be entrepreneurs, the challenges of starting a business can seem overwhelming. And for women”” particularly women of color””the barriers to business ownership can be even greater.

When team Gennev first watched the trailer for the documentary Dream, Girl, we knew we had to bring it to Seattle. The film showcases several female entrepreneurs, exploring their aspirations, challenges, setbacks, and triumphs. For us, it spoke to so many things we’re experiencing as a startup organization: the learning we need, the responsibility we carry, but also the exhilaration, the camaraderie, and the importance of celebrating every success, big and small.

what do you need to start living your dreams?

Happily, we had the opportunity to talk with one of the leaders of the Dream, Girl team: co-producer and co-founder Komal Minhas. Film producer, writer, investor, and entrepreneur, Komal started her business, KoMedia, at just 23 years old, so she knows a thing or two about flying by the seat of one’s pants.

Komal joined the team after viewing a Kickstarter campaign launched by creator Erin Bagwell. In her video, Erin spoke openly of quitting her job after having been sexually harassed at her workplace.

“When I saw that Kickstarter campaign,” says Komal, “I knew that I had to stop everything I was doing and come and help her amplify that message and bring it to the world.”

And what is the message that inspired Komal to sign on to Erin’s dream?

It’s right there in the title: Dream, Girl. With everything that that implies: Be hopeful. Take risks. Work hard. Support others in pursuit of their dreams and allow them to support you as you push towards yours.

Dreaming big works, as the film itself demonstrates. Dream, Girl has been screened at the White House, it showed to a sell-out crowd at NYC’s historic Paris Theatre, and last year, Erin and Komal were named to Oprah Winfrey’s SuperSoul100 list.

screening for Dream Girl at White House

“people are so happy we have a range of voices and stories
that we don’t traditionally get to see on screen and all together”

Like us, audiences have found a lot to love about this buoyant, inspirational, often funny documentary and the utterly charming women it showcases.

what has made Dream, Girl so popular?

“Some of the feedback we get is that people are so happy we have a range of voices and stories that we don’t traditionally get to see on screen and all together,” Komal told us. “People tell us they feel connected to these diverse and amazing women. And we cover a real breadth of topics””from lack of mandated paid parental leave in the US, to sexual harassment in the workplace, to pausing your dreams to build a strong relationship elsewhere, to finding funding for your project, to what it’s like to be a mom in the workplace””there are so many different topic areas that connect for people.”

At every screening they attend, Komal says, there are moments that make all the effort worth it. For example, during a post-screening discussion at a major firm, a young female employee said she felt she was not being seen at the company as much as her male colleagues were. A senior-level exec was also at that screening, and he stood up and made a promise to remedy the situation, take time with her, and figure out steps forward. Witnessing this sort of genuine progress helps keep Team Dream energized and moving forward.

However, Komal says, perhaps their biggest success has been in finding and supporting each other through the journey and in “strategically and thoughtfully” building a community around the film and its message.

building community: the unique distribution model of Dream, Girl

Speaking of building community, the Dream, Girl team have been very intentional in their distribution model, choosing to push the film through community screenings such as Gennev’s first, before pursuing digital channels. Why?

Because, Komal says, “We have been told time and again that our hosts, our audience members love seeing this film in person. You don’t want to see it alone, you want to see it as a collective and you want to talk about it and really get into the topics. We’ll eventually go digital with our film””that’s a future goal of ours so we can get the word out there as much as we can””but we find that right now, community screenings really give our audience the space they need to take it in.”

Komal and Erin do want their message to reach a larger audience, and they had a taste of what that could look like after the US presidential election. Deeply unsettled by the result of the election, the team made the unique””and uniquely generous””decision to allow people to view the film for free over the Internet. In four days, Dream, Girl was viewed more than 12,000 times. Clearly, people really crave the film’s positive, hopeful message.

“Listen, be kind, and be thoughtful about inclusiveness in the workplace.”

We asked Komal what companies like Gennev can do to take that positive message forward. Given today’s political climate, she told us, the onus is more and more on corporations to recognize and nurture female talent. “If we can make more inclusive workspaces, and help more people feel safe in the places where they spend the majority of their time, that’s the greatest thing companies can do. Listen, be kind, and be thoughtful about inclusiveness in the workplace.”

We never end a conversation without asking for that One Big Piece of Advice””this time for would-be female entrepreneurs. Her answer? “Take care of your health. As millennial women, we get so caught up in the hustle, needing to achieve, needing to accomplish so much by X date and being on the Forbes 30 Under 30 list”¦. Just take care. We have so much more time than we think we do. Clara in the film didn’t start her business until she was 50 years old. It’s important to prioritize your health above all else: your company needs it, the world needs it, and your employees need you.”

More information is available on our Facebook event page, so take a look, then get your ticket while there’s time!

 

“You get about 15 minutes between pimples and wrinkles. Enjoy it.” as my mom

Turns out, mom was wrong. While we all expect wrinkles with aging, menopause acne can occur or recur for the first time since our teens. Sigh.

Whether it’s prom night or project presentation day, pimples can suck your self-confidence, and no one’s got time for that. So, what’s going on and what do we do about it?

I talked with Dr. David Lortscher, MD, board-certified dermatologist, and creator of Curology. While Dr. Lortscher focuses on individually tailored treatments for acne, he shared with us some information on lifestyle choices that can help women in menopause handle changes in their skin.

Why does acne return in menopause?

As estrogen declines in midlife, so do collagen and elastin, meaning your skin may become thinner, drier, and looser than before. Hence, wrinkles. But estrogen decline also takes with it our skin’s ability to ward off acne, sometimes leading to acne during and even after menopause.

According to Dr. Lortscher, “As women transition into menopause, as at puberty, a relative predominance of androgens (male-type hormones that all women have) is responsible for acne breakouts in some. In general, androgens stimulate oil production and can worsen acne, while estrogens counter that effect.”

What can we do to treat menopausal acne?

As with all things menopausal, there are a variety of treatments ranging from lifestyle changes to over-the-counter or prescription medications, to more significant medical interventions. But many women can control breakouts by making simple changes to diet, getting more sleep, and dealing differently with stress.

Looking for prescription menopause acne treatment? A Gennev menopause-certified gynecologist can give you a trusted opinion, determine if medication is right for you, and they can provide prescription support. Book an appointment with a doctor here. 

Ending menopause acne with lifestyle changes

  1. Consider reducing or eliminating dairy. Says Dr. Lortscher, “Milk contains precursors to testosterone and other androgens, which influence the hormone receptors in the skin to turn on the process that causes acne. The association with acne is more marked with skim milk than with whole milk, and in those consuming more than 3 portions per week. It is possible that cheese, ice cream, and yogurt may be associated with acne, but the link appears to be stronger with milk. Not everyone responds to avoiding dairy, but it is something to consider.” Dr. Lortscher warns that soy milk may also aggravate breakouts, so it may be a matter of trial and error to find what works best for you.
  2. Add spearmint tea. For hormonal acne, you might want to try some tea! According to Dr. Lortscher, “Although not proven, there is some convincing evidence that drinking two cups of spearmint tea per day can reduce blood levels of circulating androgens.” However, he cautions tea enthusiasts to stick to just two cups per day, as drinking too much tea can be harmful.
  3. Boost phytoestrogens. These are the foods that mimic our body’s natural hormone, estrogen, only weaker. Commonly found in soy, seeds, nuts and nut butters, these are good for your collagen, skin, and mood. However, if you have a personal or family history of breast cancer, proceed with caution and check with a doc.
  4. Reduce the sugar. Just like when you were a teen, cutting back on sugar (particularly the processed kind) will help with breakouts. Bonus: being aware of your hormones and nutrition can help. Reducing processed sugar helps with many other menopausal issues as well.
  5. Supplement. Consider increasing Vitamins B (folic acid, specifically), C, D, biotin, iodine, and Omega 3 supplements for women.

Other remedies are ones you’ve heard before: sleep more. Stress less. Stop smoking. Hydrate. By doing a combination of all of the above, you have a strong chance of reducing or eliminating midlife acne, and you will certainly be doing good things for your overall health. Plus, spearmint tea tastes really nice. 

For those whose acne doesn’t yield to lifestyle changes, you may also want to consider adding over-the-counter remedies to your menopause skin-care regimen: look for creams that include benzoyl peroxide (but use sparingly, as this can further dry your skin) or salicylic acid to unclog pores. Or go another step to a personalized treatment plan. Sometimes hormonal acne treatments can be effective, but do not work for everyone and should be carefully evaluated before going that route. Acne after menopause is often treated in this manner, but to varying results.

Thank you to board-certified dermatologist Dr. David Lortscher, MD and creator of Curology.

 We can help you

 

The information on the Gennev site is never meant to replace the care of a qualified medical professional.  Hormonal shifts throughout menopause can prompt a lot of changes in your body, and simply assuming something is “just menopause” can leave you vulnerable to other possible causes. Always consult with your physician or schedule an appointment with one of Gennev’s telemedicine doctors before beginning any new treatment or therapy.

What if you could relax more easily, decrease anxiety, symptoms of depression, fall asleep easily, improve the quality of your sleep, even signal increased anti-inflammatory and self-regulatory body responses at will? We can.

And…bonus! It’s free and easy to do. 

We almost don’t have to think about it to get the benefits.

While scientific research and verification are still underway, it might be worth attempting to activate the vagus nerve regularly with simple breathing exercises in order to engage the parasympathetic nervous system. This will begin to take us into a “rest and digest” mode, and out of the sympathetic system’s “fight, flight or freeze”.

Chances are good you’re more familiar with your sympathetic nervous system. This system is the one that boosts the body’s heart rate, directs blood flow to key systems and organs, and increases alertness, via rapid hormone release. All of this is in order to prepare the body for the fight, flight, or freeze response in a dangerous or stressful situation. 

Wired, but tired

Feeling wired-but-tired may be an indicator that your sympathetic nervous system is working harder than it needs to, especially if you’ve got that feeling in non-stressful, non-emergency situations. Perhaps you’ve felt it while watching television, or while trying to fall asleep in the comfort and safety of your home. Or maybe you find it challenging to rest or get to a state of relaxation in general.

You’re not alone

Dr. Deepak Chopra, notes that “Our society is on sympatheic overdrive.” Meaning, many of us are in a constant or chronic state of high alert. What else does this mean for our bodies to be in an almost constant state of emergency alert? 

It increases our risks for high blood pressure, inflammation throughout the body, heart disease, cardiac arrhythmias. Getting out of the sympathetic nervous system and into the parasympathetic system takes little effort, and we’re all halfway there by breathing all the time anyway. With a tiny bit of modification, we may reap the benefits of improved health and wellbeing, reduce our risks for heart disease, symptoms of anxiety, and depression.

Fun facts about the vagus nerve

Which is the longest nerve in your body, with a path to almost every organ? It’s the 10th cranial nerve in the body and it wanders from above the mid-brain throughout your body, all the way down to your colon: the vagus nerve. Ta-da!

As a part of the parasympathetic nervous system in our bodies, the vagus nerve influences lung, heart, gut, and diaphragm activity, not to mention facial expressions, speaking and swallowing functions. And it’s possible to activate, support, and bring balance into our bodies regularly by engaging and activating the vagus nerve.

Vagus nerve breathing exercises for engagement

Breathing slowly and deeply is the path to engaging the vagus nerve and improving what’s known as vagal tone. 

Breathing in and out through your nose, inhaling and exhaling to the count of 4. Spend 2-ish minutes and breathe 10 breaths of inhale and exhale at the count of 4 for each, and see how you feel.

Play with it. Perhaps you can slow your number of inhales and exhales per minute even more by inhaling to a count of 5 and then exhaling to a count of 6 or 8 for another series of 10 breaths.

What does this do? 

It provides a balancing effect on your nervous system. When you practice this type of breathing, and other non-invasive methods to activate your vagus nerve, improve your heart rate variability (HRV), so your body can relax faster and easier after a period of stress. This breathing exercise can also help you to relax and fall asleep.

Vagus nerve stimulation

There are medical procedures and devices that have been adopted to stimulate the vagus nerve in order to treat epilepsy and mental health including depression. There was a study done in 2016 for those suffering from rheumatoid arthritis as well. 

Ongoing research is currently underway for inflammatory diseases such as Crohn’s, Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, as well as rapid cycling bipolar and anxiety disorders.

More support, not less

How to incorporate a new practice that may ease menopause symptoms, and even help to decrease inflammation, reduce the risk of heart disease? Maybe all you need are a few suggestions to prompt you to engage your parasympathetic nervous system during the day? You could begin to breathe slowly and deeply when you: 

Where else, and what else, might prompt you to take a more conscious, deeper breath?

But wait, there’s more

Additional ways to engage your vagus nerve and your parasympathetic nervous system:

Coaching and additional support may be of help as you navigate through your menopause transition. Make a simple start by slowing and deepening your breathing. The hardest thing about this suggestion may be remembering to do it. 

 

What did you discover when you tried to engage your parasympathetic nervous system via your vagus nerve? We’d love to hear what you’ve experienced in our Community forums. Join, and share.

 

When hormone levels change, it seems like your whole body changes, doesn’t it?

This is especially true for women with diabetes who are entering the beginning stages of menopause, perimenopause. True still and again for pre-diabetic women entering the same life transition. Hormones have a whole lot to do with both menopause and diabetes, and it’s baffling at times to navigate new symptoms and identify what they are in your body, in addition to living your busy, awesome life.

A concern for the undiagnosed

In 2015, of the 30.3 million adults who had diabetes, 23.1 million were diagnosed, and the remaining 7.2 million were undiagnosed. 

What will serve you through this is your awareness and attention to what is going on in your body.

If a new diagnosis of diabetes coincides with the onset of menopause, you may be navigating some similar symptoms. For instance, you may experience a symptom of foggy thinking both menopausally and diabetically. The element to zoom in on might be to determine if and/or when there is a difference in it being a diabetic symptom vs a menopause symptom. So much is new, and not much is fun. 

Still, staying informed and aware of symptoms and changes in your body is where your power lies in making good choices and taking good care of yourself. We do recommend talking with your doctor and getting your blood sugar levels checked, especially if your risk is higher for diabetes.

A few of the main symptoms in common

 

What else will help?

Whether you’ve been diagnosed with pre-diabetes, diabetes, or menopause (or not), there are a few things you can do to help your overall health until you talk with your doctor or check in with our telemed team (but please, do talk with a doc. Soon). What can you do? Self-care, support, processing, and testing.

Your health journey is a precious and vibrant part of your life (and quality of life). The attention and care you take to feel better will serve you in both the long and short run. 

We’d love to hear your experience – both the good and the challenging – around diabetes, pre-diabetes, menopause”¦ life!

Join us in the Community for shared knowledge, wisdom, and support.

 

Do your jeans irritate you right at the waistband, and not because of the fit? Do you stand at the sink and feel pain or irritation when you lean against the counter?

It could be the scar from that C-section or appendectomy that’s giving you trouble, even if the surgery is years or decades in the past.

Internal and external scars, even long-since healed, can cause sensitivity, pain, and reduced mobility. Knowing the proper way to manage scar tissue can help you reduce or resolve those issues, on any scar, anywhere on your body. Practicing scar massage on new incisions (once healed) can help avoid problem years in the future.

To learn more about “restricted scars” and how to handle them, Gennev turned once again to our fabulous physical therapists, Brianna Droessler-Aschliman PT, DPT, CMTPT and Meagan Peeters-Gebler PT, DPT, CSCS, CMTPT.

How do restricted scars cause problems and why does massage help?

First, it’s important to know a scar is more than just a line on your skin, says Meagan. Our bodies are made of numerous layers, and there may have been several incisions to get to whatever tissue or structure or organ the surgeon was trying to fix. So the “problem” scar may actually lie deep inside.

Second, it helps to understand how scar tissue is formed. “Think of a mud puddle,” Meagan says. “To cover it up, you throw a bunch of straw on it. It covers the hole, but the pieces of straw land every which way and end up lying in different directions. That’s how scars form.”

Plus, says Bri, the cells that form a scar matrix are often tougher and more fibrous. This makes the scar tissue less flexible than the tissue around it.

“Scars can even pull on surrounding skin and tissue and form adhesions,” says Bri. The pain, burning sensation, or restricted movement happens when you try to pull or twist against that adhesion.

Scar massage helps by realigning existing scar tissue so the fibers are neatly organized and running parallel and perpendicular to one another, making the matrix of scar tissue much more flexible and elastic. Second, massage helps break up adhesions, freeing up restricted muscles, organs, and fascia for greater range of motion. Finally, massage can help establish a framework so any new tissue that’s created becomes part of this organized pattern. No more jumbled straw!

How do I know my pain is from a scar?

Restricted scar pain can go undiagnosed for years, since people often don’t associate new pain with an old wound. A doctor or physical therapist will likely be able to feel the restricted scar by pushing on the painful area with their fingertips.

A healthy, well-healed scar should feel and move like the skin around it, according to our PTs. “I shouldn’t feel a barrier, no raised ridge, no wad of tissue or puckering. If I pull it one direction or another, it should move easily, without causing pain,” says Meagan. “If it doesn’t, a restricted scar is where I’ll start.”

“Most people aren’t told about the importance of scar massage,” Bri adds, “so we see this problem pretty often. But it’s really avoidable. People can be taught to start massaging their own scars as carefully as as soon as the incision is healed to keep adhesions from forming in the first place.”

Hands-on healing: how to massage scars

Hang on, before you go diving in: if this is a new incision, is it fully healed? As Meagan says, be sure it’s fully closed, with no draining, oozing or crusting, and no risk of eruption. If you’re not sure, consult with your doc.

Begin by desensitizing the area. Nerves may be flaring and angry from the surgery or injury; you want to calm them so the area can tolerate scar massage a little further down the road. Start the desensitization by rubbing the area lightly with a very smooth, silky fabric. Do that for a few days, then increase the sensory input by moving to cotton, then denim, then wool. Once it can tolerate that level of irritation, you can move on to massage.

According to Bri, most folks are ready for scar massage about 6 weeks after surgery. You’ll want to consult with a physical therapist to learn to do this right. Happily, once you’ve mastered the art of scar massage, you can carry on on your own.

The trick is to find areas of resistance, according to our PTs. When you find one, gently press and hold. You can continue doing this until you feel it start to release. Bri suggests finding a good topical cream to make massage easier and promote healing (oddly, a combination at frankincense and emu oil seems particularly effective, she says).

Fortunately, even very old scars respond to manipulation and massage. And no scars are “off bounds.” Had an episiotomy? Go for it.

Scars and breast cancer awareness month

We wanted to talk about this topic now, in recognition of breast cancer awareness month and the far too many women and men who wear the scars of mastectomies and biopsies.

“Scar massage is really useful for mastectomy and post-radiation healing,” Meagan says. “With mastectomy, women can have challenges with breathing, with rib-cage mobility, arm motion, even just reaching overhead. Plus superficial nerves can get entrapped in scar tissue, and that can cause lots of pain and problems. Knowing how to do scar massage can help avoid a lot of issues later on.”

Healing old wounds (and not just old scars)

For many of us, just looking at a scar is difficult, much less touching or massaging it.

This is where working with a PT can really help. “Often we’re the first to touch a new scar, even before the patient,” says Bri. “They want to know that it’s OK to touch it, that they won’t open it or cause themselves more pain. We can show them how to touch it, when it’s OK; we tell them, this is what it’s supposed to feel like, this is what you can expect, this is how it should move. Once they know all that, it’s easier to be open to the massage and to taking over their healing themselves.”

“It makes sense that it’s hard,” says Meagan. “We associate that mark on our body with a traumatic event. Even if it happened during the happy birth of a child, scars change our body and how we view it. But think of it a different way: a scar is proof that your body is healing, and that’s good. When you can’t bring yourself to touch your scar, it’s like you’re an open circuit, and all that good energy is being lost. Once you can touch it, you complete the circuit, allowing the energy to flow through your body. That’s what healing is.”

Have you practiced scar massage, and did it work for you? Tell us EVERYTHING.  Share with the community in the comments below, or fill us in on Gennev’s Facebook page or Midlife & Menopause Solutions, Gennev’s closed Facebook group.

Want more from Meagan and Bri? Well, of course you do, they’re awesome. Check out if you’re peeing normally and what to do if you’re not. Here are some steps to take to improve your sex life (and how to orgasm better! – like, a lot). And learn why  why your sleep is screwy. Discover why you need good sleep and how to get it. And be sure to read Brianna’s article on “Managing Scar Tissue“ for Nature’s Pathways magazine.

 

I’ve been thinking about community a lot lately.

How much do we need it? As women, most all of us thrive on connection.

And when we’re going through life’s transitions, connecting with others going through the same thing kind of makes it more palatable.

Personally, I’ve got my community of women to whom I go to with the most personal of things. I’ve got a very small handful of friends (like 3-5 max) that I share life’s ups and downs. Things about my marriage, my family, even shameful mistakes that I’ve made. I’ve learned that I feel better when I share with others that I trust”¦even if there is no amount of advice that can help me recover”¦quickly.

But how about going through menopause? Is it something that you want to share with others?

 

 

For menopause and health topics, I broaden my net. I’m willing to share my experiences with other women of all levels of closeness to me, because women’s health is a “sisterhood” type of topic that creates a common bond, even when a personal relationship doesn’t exist.

Menopause levels the playing field. We’re all going to go through it.

I commonly find that my role with Gennev makes me a safe place for women to share all types of gnarly health symptoms including mood swings, painful sex, vaginal dryness, and the all-too-common insomnia that especially nails women in the workplace.

One woman even went so far to call me “the vagina whisperer.”

I’m struggling to land on what our Gennev community needs to be as we grow beyond the thousands of women we serve today. Is it a support group or health Q&A forum?

Do you find comfort in sharing/listening in a closed Facebook group, like the one Gennev hosts called Midlife & Menopause Solutions?

Or would you rather browse a general menopause FAQ forum to seek out questions and answers from health practitioners and like-minded women?

And is a menopause community something you want to bring your friends into, or something that you want to do anonymously?

I want to hear what you want your community to be. Is it simply a place to connect with like-minded women? Or a place to get answers and solutions for feeling better in your body?

Email me at jill@gennev.com

Have a great weekend!

JIll

 

Gout? Isn’t that something men suffer from? Do woman get gout? 

It is. And more and more women are getting diagnosed with gout as well.

In the last 20 years, cases of women with gout have more than doubled. According to the Arthritis Foundation, “…Two million women as and 6 million men as in the U.S. have this inflammatory form of arthritis that causes joint swelling and telltale pain at the base of the big toe.”

 

What is gout?

Gout is, as noted, a form of arthritis. Gout occurs when high levels of uric acid increase in the blood and form needle-shaped urate crystals in the joints or a joint’s surrounding tissue.

 

How does uric acid get produced? 

When your body breaks down purines “” naturally-occurring substances in your body and in some foods “” uric acid is produced. The normal function includes this uric acid being dissolved in the blood, transferring to the kidneys, and then getting eliminated through your urine.

The body could be out of balance and develop gout by producing too much uric acid, or by excreting too little of it in the urine.

 

What does gout feel like?

A flare-up can swell the joints making it painful to walk or move, and can increase stress and frustration levels, which may then exacerbate other menopause symptoms like insomnia, night sweats, hot flashes, etc. Definitely not the direction to head in if you can possibly avoid it.

Joints may also swell, radiate heat, and flush red in color as well. A gout flare-up may also feel as though a joint is on “on fire,” like a joint-specific, localized hot flash of sorts.

If left untreated, gout pain may worsen and joint damage could ensue. Best to get it checked.

Is gout hereditary? If your family history includes gout, The Mayo Clinic notes you’re more likely to develop this disease. 

In men, gout is often described as a sudden, severe attack, usually in the night, with intense pain in one of the joints, commonly the big toe. But this isn’t always the case with women.

In women, it can be a sudden attack, but it may also develop more slowly over time and in multiple joints. Brian F. Mandell, MD, a rheumatologist at the Cleveland Clinic in Ohio and board member of The Gout & Uric Acid Education Society, shares:

“In women, it seems there is a greater prevalence of the initial episode of gout being in multiple joints. It may not always be the typical swollen great toe. In the hands, this is often misdiagnosed as inflammatory osteoarthritis when it may actually be attacks of gout.”

Women frequently experience gout in the ends of their fingers, wrists, knees, and toes and are more prone to gout after menopause.

 

Ready to focus on your health in midlife and menopause? Work with a Gennev Menopause Health Coach.

 

Gout in women. What’s estrogen got to do with gout?

Estrogen in premenopausal women and those on estrogen replacement therapy helps to flush the uric acid out of the system, according to the Arthritis Foundation. After menopause, uric acid levels tend to rise. 

If a person with a uterus develops gout before going through menopause, it’s usually due to other conditions such as having a history of taking diuretics, high blood pressure, diabetes, kidney disease, and obesity.

 

What about nutrition? Can diet manage gout and minimize flare-ups?

When it comes to diet, gout, and overall health, definitely get into your doctor’s office to talk about your health specifically. Especially if you have other health conditions.

Foods to avoid, limit, or moderate regarding gout

Some of the foods recommended to moderate or minimize may have health benefits that outweigh the risk for gout (like the omega 3s in sardines may be more important to brain health than sardines’ risk of gout). Knowing your levels, getting screenings, and having regular conversations about your health with your doctor or nutritionist will be your best way forward.

 

On alcohol and gout

The topic offoods to avoid in menopause like alcohol comes up regularly in our content since it can spike the intensity and frequency of symptoms such as”¦ hot flashes, headaches or migraines, and mood swings (well, rage, really). It’s especially important to note for those prone to developing or who are actively managing gout.

Researchers out of the Boston University School of Medicine examined data on 2,476 female and 1,951 male participants in the ongoing Framingham Heart Study, which has followed residents of Framingham, Massachusetts, since the late 1940s. Over an average of three decades of follow-up, 304 cases of gout were reported, with one-third of those cases occurring in women.

Further reporting from the Framingham Heart Study shared that:

“Drinking 7 or more ounces of spirits a week — roughly five drinks — doubled the gout risk in men and tripled it in women. Heavy beer drinking was associated with a doubling of risk among men and a sevenfold increase in risk among women.” [emphasis ours]

 

Foods to include

We recommend weight loss,if you need it, for healthy menopause weight management. “Being overweight increases the risk of developing gout, and losing weight lowers the risk of it. Research suggests that reducing the number of calories and losing weight “” even without a purine-restricted diet “” lower uric acid levels and reduce the number of gout attacks. Losing weight also lessens the overall stress on joints.”

Recommended eats & drinks:

Talk with your doctor, or one of our doctors, and your menopause health coach, about specific concerns about gout, joint pain, and other forms of arthritis. Talk with them sooner rather than later if obesity, high blood pressure, diabetes figures into your current state of health and well being.

Your health, mobility, and well being are worth it.

 

Join the Gennev Community Forums to weigh in on this topic, ask questions, and understand more about menopause with others on the path.

 

Does using birth control delay menopause? Does it increase the risk of breast cancer or heart disease in menopausal or perimenopausal women? After many years on the Pill, how will I know it’s safe to go off it?

Birth control and menopause: what do we need to know?

For answers to our birth-control-and-menopause questions, we turned to Dr. Sherry Ross, award-winning OBGYN and author of the book >She-ology, a look into women’s health beyond the doctor’s office.

talk with Dr Sherry

Dr. Sherry Ross

For those in perimenopause, should we stop taking the Pill?

“First,” Dr. Sherry told us, “be sure you understand this: until you’ve had no periods for a year, you can still get pregnant.

“Part of the confusion is around definitions: The true definition of “˜menopause’ is when you don’t have a period for one full year, but many women suffer from disruptive symptoms for a few years leading up to full cessation of periods””that’s called “˜perimenopause.’ As I said, until you are officially in menopause””meaning no periods for a full year””you can potentially get pregnant, so be sure to use some form of contraception. If you are single and dating while in menopause, you may not have to worry about getting pregnant, but you do have to protect yourself against sexually transmitted infections, so make sure your partner wears a condom.”

So, re: birth control, keep on keeping on until one year with no periods, and re: condoms, always always always outside of committed, monogamous relationships. Check.

Do birth control pills or using a hormonal IUD help with perimenopause?

” Oral contraceptives and an IUD like Mirenacan mask some of the symptoms of perimenopause and menopause,” Dr. Sherry told us. “That’s one of the benefits. Women on the Pill may have fewer, less-intense hot flashes, more “˜normal’ periods when other women are all over the menstrual map, and they might have more modulated emotional swings, which can be a huge benefit in their personal and professional lives. That’s why many doctors””myself included””prescribe low-estrogen birth control pills women having a rough menopause and don’t smoke or to make the transition into menopause easier.”

Does birth control delay menopause?

Short answer: No. Here’s why:

“Menopause is a time when your ovaries stop producing estrogen and your female hormone reserves are depleted. Known factors that can affect what age you enter menopause include your genetic predisposition, knowing when your mom went through the change, chromosomal abnormalities such as Turner Syndrome, very thin or obese women, long smoking history, needing chemotherapy or radiation therapy, those with autoimmune diseases and epilepsy.

“It’s clear that short- and long-term stress, such as extreme weight loss and weight gain, can offset your hormones, causing irregular periods. The extent this type of significant stress has on your endocrine system, causing hormone adrenal depletion and possibly affecting menopause, is not as clear.

“There is an association between extreme and long-standing exercising causing weight loss which can offset your hormones and cause early menopause. Excessive exercising creates a hormonal imbalance, causing irregular ovulations. It’s less likely short-term exercising mixed in with months of not exercising could cause a cascade of events leading to an early hormonal depletion.

“So there are some things that can bring on early menopause, but being on the birth control pill does not affect when you begin menopause. The Pill can mask the symptoms of menopause and, as I said, many women depend on it to help ease the transition into menopause.”

If we’ve been taking oral contraceptives for 20+ years, how will we know if perimenopause has started?

“The best way to know if you are in menopause while taking the birth control pill is to check your hormonal levels at the end of the pill-free week. Some women may even notice hot flashes during the pill-free/placebo week since they are not taking estrogen that’s normally in the active pills. Your doctor can conduct a simple blood menopause test that determines if your follicle-stimulating hormone level (FSH) has reached menopausal levels.”

If you need a trusted opinion, determine if medication is right for you, and possible prescription support. Book an appointment with one our Gennev menopause-certified gynecologist doctors here.

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Are there health risks to continuing to take the Pill?

Says Dr. Sherry: “As long as you’re not a smoker over the age of 35, and you don’t have any contraindications of being on the Pill (high blood pressure, a history of blood clots, liver disease, breast or uterine cancer, strokes or migraine headaches), there are no health risks to taking the Pill during the first couple of years of menopause. The birth control pill stabilizes your hormones and keeps you physically and mentally balanced.”

And, according to Dr. Sherry, there’s even more good news.

Wait. There’s good news? About menopause?

“There’s evidence that taking birth control pills reduces the risk the risk of ovarian and uterine cancers. It may also help with rheumatoid arthritis.”

OK, that’s all terrific, but there have to be drawbacks.

What are the risks?

Said Dr. Sherry: “As I said, hormonal birth control is not for women who smoke, particularly if they’re 35 or older. Birth control pills may increase your risk of strokes and blood clots, and that risk is exponentially higher for smokers over 35. Yet another reason to quit!”

We completely agree. Anything else?

“Studies are still being conducted into hormonal birth control and breast cancer. But unless a woman has a history of breast cancer or other factors that make her high risk, she should feel comfortable taking low-dose birth control pills to control perimenopausal or menopausal symptoms,” Dr. Sherry told us.

“The best first step is to have a frank and open discussion with your menopause doctor. And don’t be embarrassed or shy””I can tell you from personal experience that almost nothing shocks a doc! Menopause is a normal, natural process and part of life, though women may experience it differently. Your doctor is here to help you understand what’s happening and alleviate symptoms that are interfering with your quality of life. There are solutions. You can feel better. And that’s the best news of all.”

Sheryl A. Ross, M.D., “Dr. Sherry,” is an award-winning OBGYN, author, entrepreneur and women’s health expert. The Hollywood Reporter named her as one of the best doctors in Los Angeles, Castle Connolly named her as a Top Doctor in the specialty of Obstetrics & Gynecology, and she was selected as a 2017 Southern California Super Doctor. Dr. Sherry continues the conversation of women’s health and wellness in her monthly newsletters and on DrSherry.com.  

Dr. Sherry Ross blogs for Huffington Post, Maria Shriver, Greatist, SheKnows, HelloFlo, Today Show, All Things Menopause, and Gurl, and we are thrilled to welcome her to the Gennev community!

We can help you get your questions answered about menopause

 The information on the Gennev site is never meant to replace the care of a qualified medical professional.  Hormonal shifts throughout menopause can prompt a lot of changes in your body, and simply assuming something is “just menopause” can leave you vulnerable to other possible causes. Always consult with your physician or schedule an appointment with one of Gennev’s telemedicine doctors before beginning any new treatment or therapy.